Polyamory, ENM, or Kink Relationship Therapy
Reconnecting and Reviving Intimacy through Our Emotions.
Relationship Therapy for Polyamorous/Monogamous/ENM Dynamics, Exploring Kink, Exploring Sexuality Together, and Deepening Connection.
Our emotions are at the heart of our connection with those we love. You and your partner(s) might come to me if you are looking to grow this bond by engaging with your emotions, getting vulnerable with each other, and creating the safety that you need to grow in your connection together.
Changing Your Relationship Dynamic Doesn’t Mean You’re in Trouble.
As a matter of fact sometimes it means the opposite. Our relationship dynamics grow with us. You might consider therapy with me because you are experiencing some of these changes. You might be a monogamous couple beginning to explore polyamory or your dynamic in your relationship might be shifting as you explore your sexuality. You may be opening up over time about your kinks, you want to increase your sexual connection, or you feel you’ve drifted and want to revive your connection. All are great reasons to seek help in deepening intimacy.
I help my clients deepen their intimacy and meaningfully connect.
I primarily use Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and integrate other techniques, to help you engage with each other instead of being stopped by emotional road blocks. Through attuning to emotions, I help people navigate their relationship dynamics (Polyamory/ENM/Monogamy), explore sexuality together, incorporate kink into their relationship, and revive emotional intimacy and connection.
Reasons clients come to see me.
Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy, Polyamory, & Monogamy
People come to me when they are needing help navigating their relationship dynamics. Maybe you are becoming monogamous when you have previously been open. Maybe you have been exclusive, but are looking for help in exploring polyamory or ENM together. Maybe you need help with another part of your relationship, and just need a therapist who already understands polyamory or ENM. I am here to help you maintain the connection with the person you love so that you can feel secure exploring your changing dynamics.
Deepening or Repairing Sexual Connection
People experience sexual disconnection for all kinds of reasons. Shame can block us from engaging. Hormonal changes happen throughout our life. Emotional disconnection keeps us from feeling sexually connected. Whatever the case, I am here to help you engage with the deeper emotions keeping you from the sexual connection that you want.
Exploring Kink
Somehow, our society is both obsessed and avoidant when it comes to sex. Many people have not felt safe to explore their sexuality and their desires. I want to help you connect, explore, and incorporate kink into your relationships. I am here to help you engage with your sexuality and create intimacy and connection with each other as you do it.
Growing or Reviving Emotional Intimacy
Relationships do not play out as fairy tales. We drift apart for all kinds of reasons. Work, education, having kids, life can be really packed and busy sometimes. Maintaining intimacy and connection in our relationships requires intentionality. I am here to help you get in touch with the difficult emotions under the surface, and build bridges of intimacy together.
